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Melanie Goetz

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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #128217 Upward Roots
Available this week
Specialties: Trauma, Attachment Issues, Couples Counseling, Chronic Pain, Peer Relationships,
Accepting clients impacted by disaster

Introduction

Hi, I’m Melanie. I specialize in helping people move from surviving to thriving by gently untangling patterns rooted in early trauma and chronic stress. Many of the people I work with long for mutual, nourishing relationships but find themselves overextending, silencing their needs, or feeling invisible. Together, we explore what shaped those patterns and how to begin living in alignment with your values, needs, and hopes for connection. My approach integrates EMDR, Attachment Theory, Parts Work, and Somatic Therapy to support the nervous system and restore trust in your body’s inner wisdom. I’m certified in EMDR and DARe (Dynamic Attachment Re-patterning experience), a somatic model for healing attachment wounds. I regularly incorporate Polyvagal Theory and the Window of Tolerance to help you track your internal state and develop personalized tools for regulation, expression, and connection. In our work together, we’ll make space for all of you—your Wounded Inner Child, Protectors, and Core Self—and honor the ways you’ve learned to survive along the way. From that compassionate foundation, we’ll begin to loosen the grip of old patterns and grow your capacity for ease, connection, and self-trust by guiding your mind and body to recall and absorb a sense of being cared for, appreciated, seen, and valued by me and others, whether imaginary or real life friends and family. This process can open up a life that once felt out of reach: one rooted in clarity, joy, and emotional safety. A little bit about my experience: I attended graduate school in New Orleans and started counseling foster families and teenagers at a juvenile detention center. From the very beginning I've been trauma-informed focused on nervous system regulation (TBRI) and reprocessing (EMDR). I also worked with couples using the Gottman Method at a community clinic. Since moving to California in 2018, I've worked in private practice and since 2020, I exclusively work with adults and couples who are dedicated to ending generational trauma patterns. I am trained in Ongoing and Recent Events EMDR protocols for when terrible, sudden tragedies occur, EMDR intensives for those who want to work through more material in fewer sessions, and EMDR for Children, which has greatly impacted my playfulness with Wounded Child Parts when working with adults. I offer in-person sessions on Tuesdays and Thursdays, telehealth on Wednesdays, and longer Complex PTSD and couples sessions on Fridays. I’d be honored to walk alongside you on this path of healing and reconnection.

GENDER Female
PRONOUNS She/Her/Hers
RACE & ETHNICITY White

Highlights

  • Accepting new clients
  • Available on nights
  • Offers free consultation
  • In-person & telehealth appointments
  • Accepts online payments
  • Offers flexible fees

Licenses

  • LMFT #128217 (CA) We've used a trusted third-party service to verify this practitioner's license.
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Specialties

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Population focus

Appointment types

  • Individuals
  • Couples

Communities

  • Vegetarian/Vegan

Age groups

  • Young Adults (18-24)
  • Adults (24+)

Languages

  • English

Payment options Free intro call available Offers flexible fees

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Pay out-of-pocket

  • 50-minute sessions $150 - $195
  • 80-minute sessions $240 - $312
  • 110-minute sessions $330 - $420

Locations

Carlsbad Village Drive Office
325 Carlsbad Village Dr, Ste A2
Carlsbad, CA 92008-2928
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Harding Street Office
2945 Harding St Suite 203-B
Carlsbad, CA 92008-1818
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Telehealth/ Alternative Location
Oceanside, CA 92054-3449
Telehealth/ Home Office
Oceanside, CA 92054-3449
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Frequently asked questions

Is Melanie Goetz accepting new clients and do they offer online appointment requests? Melanie Goetz is currently accepting new clients and can be booked on the Monarch website. Melanie Goetz also offers a free consultation.
Does Melanie Goetz offer telehealth appointments? Melanie Goetz does offer telehealth appointments. You can request to book a telehealth appointment with them on their Monarch profile.
What areas does Melanie Goetz specialize in? Melanie Goetz specializes in the following areas: Attachment Issues, Chronic Pain, Codependency, Couples Counseling, Peer Relationships, PTSD, Relationship Issues, and Trauma.

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