I applaud you for doing a courageous thing by stepping out to ask for assistance. Sometimes that is the most important step. I am a young 66 year old who refuses to get old, have almost 40 years of marital experience, 13 of recovery, 5 years of pastoring and counseling, and 6-8 years of experience as a Marriage and Family Therapist, Mental Health Counselor, Sex Addiction Therapist, and Sex Therapist. My top priority is first to create a safe space for you to come and process those areas that continue to create discomfort, pain, or relationship distress. You deserve to be heard, understood, and receive relief and resolution. Let me accompany you for a ways on your journey.