Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony

Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA (she, her, they) Specialties and Certifications: * Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist * Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor * Neurodiverse Couples Specialist * Neurodiverse Couples Groups & Retreats Leader * Autism & ADHD Assessment Specialist * Advanced Certified Trauma Specialist * Advanced Certified Integral Coach * Brainspotting Certified-Level I & II ​Life Experience: * Has personal experience in multiple neurodiverse relationships * Worked with thousands of people as a Coach, Manager, Leader, and Mentor * Former careers as an Executive and Business Coach, Executive Director in a non-profit, and Senior Director in retail-coaching people, as well as managing staffing operations and finances Education: *Master of Science in Clinical Psychology, Sofia University, also earned a Certificate in Creative Expression *Bachelor of Science in Home Economics, Fashion Merchandising, The Ohio State University ​More about Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony: * Diagnosed as Neurodiverse 20+ years ago * Married for 35+ years to her high school sweetheart, together for 40+ years * Cancer Survivor-3 times! * Guest Lecturer on Leadership at California State University Northridge * Co-author of five books-including two about business and two about poetry Main Areas of Focus: >>> Neurodiverse Couples Therapy & Coaching: With four decades of relationship experience alongside my clinical expertise, I am here to empower neurodiverse couples seeking to deepen their connection, enhance safety, and rebuild trust. Together, we will embark on a journey to identify your core needs and gain valuable insights into yourselves and each other within the unique context of your relationship. This knowledge will equip you with practical skills to foster a loving and secure bond that endures through the years. I specialize in working with neurodiverse couples, understanding the distinct challenges and dynamics that can arise from conditions such as ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, and complex trauma. I am committed to providing targeted therapy that speaks to the specific needs of your partnership. Effective communication is the key to a successful relationship. In our sessions, I will help you and your partner learn how to communicate effectively, listen to each other's needs, and find common ground. We will also work on identifying and addressing potential barriers to effective communication, such as differences in communication styles or past unresolved conflicts. Together, we will address issues other issues that arise in Neurodiverse relationships like Cassandra Syndrome, Alexithymia, and executive functioning, challenges that can impact the quality of your relationship. I aim to help you better understand each other's perspectives, strengthen your emotional connection, and build a secure bond that will endure through the years. I also recognize the importance of self-care for individuals in any relationship. This is especially crucial for neurodiverse individuals who may struggle with managing their mental health and well-being. In our sessions, I will provide tools and techniques for practicing self-care and maintaining balance. Additionally, I have extensive experience working with couples navigating major life transitions such as marriage, parenthood, job changes, and relocation. These changes can be particularly challenging for neurodiverse couples struggling to adapt to new routines and environments. Furthermore, my approach prioritizes understanding and empathy between partners. I am dedicated to helping you appreciate each other's perspectives and cultivate a more robust connection. This involves exploring each partner's strengths and challenges, enabling you to support one another in meaningful ways each day. My goal is for you and your partner to feel heard, understood, and supported in our sessions. We can explore ways to improve your relationship dynamics, strengthen your emotional connection, and build a secure bond that will endure through the years. Empower yourself and your relationship; let us take the next step together. >>>Neurodiverse Couples Retreat: Finding time and space to explore your relationship can be challenging for neurodiverse couples. Our daily routines and responsibilities can prevent us from focusing on what matters most. That's why a couples retreat is the perfect way to reconnect. A NeurodiverseCouples Retreat provides a safe, nurturing environment that allows you to step back, reflect, and create a shared vision for your partnership. Gaining clarity on your feelings, goals, and values can help you each bring understanding, harmony, and an even deeper connection to each other – something worth investing in! Don't hesitate to contact me today to book your online or in-person retreat in beautiful Monterey, California, or on Lake Erie in Sandusky, Ohio. >>>Neurodiverse Executive Coaching: As an Advanced Certified Coach, I am committed to unlocking your full potential as an executive. With over four decades of experience working alongside entrepreneurs, non-profits, and C-suite leaders, I equip you with the insight and tools necessary for peak performance at every level. My approach is laser-focused, driving not just your business outcomes but also your personal development. Together, we will elevate your self-awareness, helping you identify and harness your unique strengths for undeniable success. My extensive experience and expertise are your advantages in the competitive corporate landscape. I offer creative, tailored solutions that prioritize profitability while enhancing your personal leadership. Now is the time to transform your skills and take decisive action toward your executive goals. Empower yourself and your organization today—let's work together to make it happen! Background and Education: Hi, I’m Barbara Lazarony, and you can call me Blaze. After a successful 20-year career in retail, I achieved what the world says is the peak of success. I went from humble beginnings on an Ohio farm to managing $2.5B in sales in 42 stores across the United States, all from my swanky office atop Market Street in San Francisco. Life back then felt complete! But beneath the gloss of this glittering lifestyle was a ticking time bomb, and that came to fruition when I received the devastating news that I had thyroid cancer in 2003. That's when it became clear what was truly important, so with newfound perspective and clarity, I resigned from my job and decided to discover who I was beyond my job title. Unfortunately, more health issues were ahead; post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety & obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) became unwelcome companions on my challenging but ultimately rewarding journey. I was guided by modern medicine, holistic treatments, and two invaluable guides: a therapist & coach. CANCER WAS THE SPARK I NEEDED TO IGNITE THE FIRE THAT CHANGED MY LIFE. –BLAZE LAZARONY It all started with that spark—that became an undeniable fire that drove me forward. I became an Advanced Certified Integral Coach and started my own business. After eighteen years of coaching and helping others, I felt something was still missing. So, at fifty-three, I embarked on a new journey—grad school in counseling psychology. Fast-forward to earning my Master's degree in Counseling Psychology, my enhanced skill set has allowed me to help people in a way that aligns with my skills as a therapist/counselor and coach. It would be my honor to work with you. Other Areas of Focus: * Neurodiverse Couples Therapy & Coaching * Neurodiverse Couples Groups & Retreats * PTSD & Trauma Treatment * Depression & Anxiety Treatment Modalities: * Brainspotting * Client-Centered Therapy * Emotionally Focused Therapy * Grief/Shame Therapy * Hypnotherapy * Integrative Therapy * Internal Family Systems (IFS) * Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (MBCT) * Sandplay * Transpersonal Therapy * Trauma-Focused Therapy * Writing to Heal & Expressive Arts Working with: * Couples * Individuals (adults only) License: Registered AMFT #127882 Registered APCC #10253 Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, LMFT #53452 Employed by New Path Couples Therapy Inc. ​ Contact: Phone: (707) 400-5346 Email: Blaze@BlazeLazarony.com Website: BlazeABrilliantPath.com Website: LoveOnTheAutismSpectrum.com Website: NeurodiverseExecutiveCoaching.com