What are three common behavioral problems?

The three most common behavioral problems are:

Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)

Approximately one in every ten children below 12 years has oppositional defiant disorder (ODD). The condition mainly affects boys rather than girls, and typical behaviors include becoming easily annoyed, irritated, or angered.

The children frequently throw tantrums and regularly argue with adults, especially their parents. They also tend to annoy others deliberately, refuse to obey rules, have low self-esteem, and blame others for their misdeeds or misfortunes.

Conduct Disorder

Many people wrongly judge children with conduct disorder as "bad kids" because of their delinquent behavior and refusal to accept rules. It's estimated that about 7% of boys and 3% of girls aged 5 to 10 years have conduct disorders.

Studies also show that about 33% of children with this condition also have attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

Some of their typical behaviors include:

  • Frequently refusing to obey their parents and authority figures

  • Tendency to use drugs

  • Repeated truancy

  • Lack of empathy for others

  • Aggressiveness towards animals and other people and sadistic tendencies

  • Keenness to start physical fights

  • Frequent lying

  • A tendency to run away from home

  • Criminal tendencies

  • Suicidal tendencies

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

Boys are more prone to have ADHD among the two to five percent of children that have the condition. The condition presents characteristics like:

  • Inattention

  • Impulsivity

  • Overactivity

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